It’s hard for most men to stay indifferent to innocence and sexiness of Asian women. Not to say how difficult it is to ignore our savior instinct for those women who look so soft and vulnerable. Pussy paradise. That’s how some white men call China. While believing that is not completely true, it is close. My job got me to Shanghai but I spend few years in other top tier cities (Beijing, Shenzhen, Taipei and Hong-Kong). Getting laid in China seems easy, but is it worth for you to go there?
Welcome to China
The divorce rate in China is around 4% but varies by different region and in more westernized cities like Shanghai you have western divorce rates of about 35%. Fat shaming exists and is unrelenting but takes place under the radar. People will fat shame you a lot but you won’t see it much on TV or media. The average BMI for a Chinese girl is a lot of points lower than for her American competition.
In the last couple of years, several of my friends have become married here and have kids. The thing is that mom has the baby and then lose weight to be slim and sexy again within a two months of giving birth.
Sexual market is determined by your guanxi (关系 face). It’s defined by title, status, wealth etc. Considering the one-child policy, it’s especially essential to get married. Parents insist on traditional beliefs which mean that if you take their daughter for your wife, it’s like you got married to their whole family so you are obligated to respect the inlaws when they get retired.
There is a massive class difference in this country. By our standards, Chinese are either penniless or very rich (Hongerdai – 红二代 second generation red blood, Fuerdai – 富二代 second generation wealthy). Middle class is growing however it’s overrun by the Chinese Gov. and it’s small if you compare it with the US.
Getting laid in China is easy when you are white
In China, your dick is big: I’m little above average but certainly no John Holmes. And yet with every Chinese girl in bed, I get the indirect and direct compliment that I am too big. Back in Montreal, I dated very Canadianized Chinese women and they loved a good pounding.
When you land in this country and you are white, you are immediately top 20%. Your typical American beta boy in China has several inches of height and lot of $ income compared to the locals. That is just status.
If you are considered a 6 in the US, and you are white, in China you become a solid 8 male tourist (Laowai). You would be considered to be pretty, exotic, tall and people will think you are rich. She will brag to her friends about you.
The reality will most likely be that you are an underpaid English teacher or middle-class tourist who is here to find a job for 2-3 years.
For every poorer Chinese girl in large cities; a white guy is seen as a prize. Unlike Serbian women, many white folks fuck Chinese women with little to no effort, ‘game’ is not required. Such behavior is frowned upon since there’s unspoken social contract that sex outside marriage is an act to make her your wife. Chinese women are usually shy, but since you’re a white guy you will be attractive and find out that it’s very easy to date and fuck the middle or lower class Chinese (Too easy if you are ripped);
Getting laid in China is easy. For many white men, it’s very hard not to bang a lot of chicks here. A bunch of my friends, entrepreneurs in this country who are educated in the US will spend years and years banging women – while being also married.
Chinese women are very hypergamous.
Getting laid in China is not difficult, but if you care to get into a relationship with the high class of Chinese it’s hard. Firstly you’re a foreigner, most Hongerdai (second generation red) can’t have LTR with outsiders and no matter if you are rich and worth of 10M, you’re still peasant for them. A big portion of these high-class chicks will look over even on rich folks from first world countries, so if you work with big companies or are a manager, you work 60-80 hour per week for something they consider a pocket money.
On the other hand, I never saw those women in marriage. Mostly other filthy rich Chinese men won’t consider getting into a marriage with a rich woman over 30 unless their families are very well connected and they want to merge their business. Despite the pressure to marry in China – you see many of recently divorced wealthy Chinese women (fuerdai or hongerdai) who will rather be alone than get married.
Disadvantages and conclusion
There are not so many sluts outside of Shanghai(and other big cities) and it’s not easy to find a girl who will fuck for the sake of fucking. They tend to pair up in high school or college and run with it.
If you speak the language then you can get access to young college girls (18-23). Otherwise, you are dealing with the late 20s or early 30s women with an N-count between 1 and 3.
They don’t shave their vag. They don’t give head. You’ll have to train them.
Thate being said we can get to the conclusion that China is special, different and have an interesting culture. Getting laid in China is easy. But this is not a country to get married unless you are really invested in staying here. Since I know a lot of men who have married local women, I can only say this: don’t.