Despite the fact that I talk less with girls in the recent time, and that I’m not actually putting any effort, I’m getting better results than ever before. I’m using fewer words in my texts; I talk less, I’m not trying to “seduce” and I don’t try to make her laugh. I have put almost everything on a minimum. It has come to that stadium where girls are doing 90% of the conversation.
And what about the other 10%?
That is all some impersonal communication that says nothing about me; anyone could sit there and say those same words. You can’t say who I am from what I talk with girls.
And guess what? I have more sex than ever.
What does that tell me? Girls want to fuck; they want to fuck a lot. However, when men open their mouth, they usually say things that completely repulse them from that idea. They often say some stupid shit.
Men of the 21st century have become boring, pliable and easy to manipulate. How is she supposed to sleep with such a guy? There are many reasons why this world is full of betas(one of the reason is certainly pussification).
How did I learn to keep my mouth shut?
I have a few female friends and a couple of plates. And they told me how their friends told them how they would love to jump on me. I even found out one of my current plates said that to her friends before we started to see each other. And that is based purely on how I look. Now the biggest shock is that I don’t even look really good. I look average. So, if that is true, that means that in the past as soon as I said something, I fucked things up.
At that time I also read that book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I know you heard about this book a hundred times, so just go and read it. And don’t read it once and throw her in the corner. Read best parts every month. It talks about how you should switch the focus of the conversation from yourself to others. Remember, most people’s favorite subject to talk about is themselves
Another great book is 48 laws of power:
“Always say less than necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.”
― Robert Greene,
People that talk too much look like they want to impress someone. That is always a bad idea. So at the end of the day just stop analyzing and shut the fuck up.
You think too much: Stop analyzing, and start listening to your gut. It’s hard to shift through all the garbage and hear what our instincts are saying. Getting rid of blue pill ideologies is a good start, but the way forward is to quiet the mind and just listen. Your gut knows what your mind can only barely comprehend.
The biggest shit test of all will be when she comments that you never talk about yourself or express what you’re feeling to her and demands that you tell her about your feelings. But remember, guys, this is a test, and the right answer is: agree and amplify. “Uhh. Let’s see. I’m feeling hungry. And horny. Definitely horny. But mostly hungry. If you’d worn a shorter skirt, maybe we could have flipped the two around, but I’m going to go get some food.” Her inner self will nod in approval when you say that. “Yup. Still a man,” she’ll confirm.
1. Use fewer words. Let her reveal to you what she wants in exchange for sex. Just read between the lines. Encourage her to talk about herself, about her fears, adventures, about her personality, etc..
2. Start lifting and caring about what you wear. That is the first thing they see.
Remember, less is more when it comes to women.