Everything You Need To Know About Russian Women

Blonde Russian woman

Russian girls are beautiful

This is what most of you have been waiting for. Russian women guide. Some of you might get motivated to visit Russia after this article and some of you that had already been here are probably very jealous of me being here in this country full of beautiful women and models.

Russian people are rooted in the East Slavic tribes, yet are also mixed with Nordic, Finno-Ugric and other groups over more than a 1500 years of history. Overall, Russian women look similar to their European counterparts, with a range of hair color from blonde to dark brown and skin ranging from fair to mildly tan. They usually have sharp features like straight noses, high cheekbones, and pointy chins which gives them that great model look.

Russian women, in my opinion, are the most beautiful women in the world. It might be because I have always been into the pretty face, model type of girls.

If I had to describe Russian women in three words, it would undoubtedly be: Beautiful, elegant and honest.


One of the best thing in this country is that feminism is almost non-existent comparing it to the western countries. Soros funded organizations like human rights and other crap are labeled as foreign agents so they can’t easily poison people with their twisted ideas.
It should be said, however, that laws like child support, dividing marital property, and the no-fault divorce principle are still in power. Ever since communists took power, they wanted to get more female voters by passing feminist laws (sound familiar?).

Russian people think of feminists as “extremists” and see them as a threat to family values. Russian women act feminine even when their job requires them to wear a uniform. Being a good wife is very important to Russian women, so they ooze femininity.

Natalia Poklonskaya, a Russian politician, serving as Deputy of the State Duma of Russia from 5 October 2016. who gained international fame online following her appointment as the chief prosecutor of the newly-created Autonomous Republic of Crimea
Natalia Poklonskaya, a Russian politician, serving as Deputy of the State Duma of Russia from 5 October 2016. who gained international fame online following her appointment as the chief prosecutor of the newly-created Autonomous Republic of Crimea

Another difference between Russian and western girls is that here in Russia girls have very little smartphone attachment. Yes, they have phones, and they are on VK (Vkontakte, Russian Facebook) and Instagram, but mostly they don’t use their phone as a validation machine but more as an mp3, to listen to music.

Imagine American women not looking at her phone for 30 minutes? Impossible right? Well, here you won’t have to compete with her phone.

Russian women stereotypes
Russian blonde woman in winter clothes

Most people’s prejudice about Russian women is that they are cold, ice queens. But is this true?

What I discovered is that Russian women may seem that way because they are very direct and honest. Straightforward. Which is a good thing when it comes to seduction. If she doesn’t like you, she will let you know very fast. “Sorry, you no type for me” is what you will get if she’s not interested. Or just simply “Njet.” There is no need for sweet talk or waste of time if she’s just not interested. And I agree. The last thing you need is to waste your time with a girl who is not interested in dating you. So I understand why they might seem cold to men not used to this type of honesty from women in their country.


During my stay at Moscow, St. Petersburg and Ekaterinburg, I was able to categorize Russian women into 3 types.

-First one is hot girls at nightclubs. They live and bread hypergamy. I find them to be the smartest girls on earth when it comes to extracting resources from you. She probably knows about the game and how to trick men and is definitely looking for a big fish. If you recognize a girl at the nightclub or if she’s going out at least once in a week and usually in the same club, chances are she belongs to this type of women.

-The second type likes to be treated like a European girl, she won’t focus herself on getting your money, but with her, you get the western experience. These student girls love to travel, and they mostly speak English and have a tattoo. I find those girls easier to get for one night stand than other 2 types. She loves to go to Greece, Montenegro or Turkey for summer vacation and be really naughty there. This type reminds me of Serbian women.

-The third type are sweethearts who never traveled outside Russian and can’t speak English. These are the type of Russian women you want to marry since they will respect you as a man and won’t ask you for money. You will need at least 4 dates before you get a chance to sleep with her. Be a man to these women, and you will be treated like a king. It’s hard to resist the urge to be in a long-term relationship with this type of woman. She knows how to cook and is willing to sacrifice a lot for you, but I don’t suggest you take her out of Russia. These are around 60% of all Russian girls.

How to spot them? Well, at nightclubs, they’re bored to death since they hate nightclubs and are only there because of their friends. She also doesn’t go out that much at all. Sound too good to be true? Well, unfortunately, for this type of women you usually need to know the Russian language.

Language barrier

The biggest obstacle to date Russian women in Russia is language. In a smaller city like Tomsk, only 1 out of every 10 girls I approached know how to speak English. In Moscow and St. Pete, things are better (1 out of 5) but not perfect. Of course, when we talk about girls who will understand you if you speak very slowly, things look better, but you will still have a problem with this.

Learning Russian is a must if you intend to stay. Not only that you will be able to speak with girls, but when people see that you know Russian language and have never been in Russia before, that’s just a huge DHV (demonstration of high value). Immense.

I have never seen people being more shocked in Russia when they realized that I never lived in a Russian-speaking country but could speak Russian.

Where and how to learn it? Rocket Russian language is a great program for beginners. It also has a free trial. My recommendations.

It would be enough to learn basics and few sentences for a girl to be impressed. And the best part? You can speak Russian not only in Russia but all former Soviet republics, that means Ukraine also.

Don’t get trapped

bottle of vodka

Never under any circumstances agree to compete with a Russian woman in who can drink more. Especially if the competition is in vodka! I thought that when people say that Russians drink a lot it’s just a stereotype. It’s not. They really drink a lot. If someone told me that an 18-year-old Russian girl could drink a bottle of vodka on her own and consider that a “warming up” I would never believe him.

Russian girls drink a lot at nightclubs, and because of that, more fun things can happen. This is the main reason I prefer Nightlife in Russia over Poland or Ukraine. Russian women are also more friendly and touchy-feely. They tend to give a lot of signals, but as I learned, this shouldn’t be confused with a strong interest in having sex with you.

Moscow vs. other cities

Moscow and St. Petersburg

Everyone that has traveled around Russia and not just Moscow will tell you one same thing: “Moscow is not Russia.” And I have to agree. There is so much to see besides Moscow that it’s a real shame to visit only this city while you are on this side of the planet.

Moscow, St. Petersburg and Sochi (at summer only) are good places for the short-term game. That means if you will stay in Russia for a few weeks or a month, go there since more girls over there know English.

But if you know the language (or plan to stay long enough to learn it) then you should go to smaller places like Tomsk, Ekaterinburg, etc. Not even that those places are cheaper, but there you will get a real Russian experience, you will meet real Russian girls (good long-term relationship material), real Russian kindness and their culture.

Pros to being in Moscow are that more girls know English and you know from the start if it’s on or not. They either like you from the beginning or they just tell you in a polite way that you should move on.

Cons are that Moscow is very expensive and it’s kinda “empty” in summer. Students go home, and others go on vacation to Thailand, Sochi, Egypt, Greece, etc. There’s also much more “hot nightclub girls” that I described earlier.

Pro tip: If you choose Moscow after all, go at least 5-10 km out of the city center to some of the suburban parks, since there you will not find rude girls who are familiar with the PUA culture.

Harem vs. One Night Stands

preselection is the most powerfull tool

One night stands are not a standard thing here in Russia. Girls expect at least 3 dates before they sleep with you, they expect at least some commitment before sex. One night stand will make her feel like a slut. Every foreigner that came here to game girls will say that Russian women are not easy to bed the same night you met them.

Best tactic that I used is that you date more than one chick simultaneously and try to build yourself a harem. Instead of giving up on a girl if she doesn’t want to sleep with you on a second date, you simply let her wait a bit and focus on another girl. This is the best tactic in Russia so far.

Pro tip: It’s not about how many dates you had before she sleeps with you but instead, how much time passed since she met you. You have better chances to bring her to your place on your second date, 2 weeks after you got her number than if you go on a three, four dates during a one week period.


Tiger in cage in Moscow Nightlife

Problem with a day game in Russia might be that it’s too cold for half the year. During that time, you just have to go to clubs to get women. The first thing you should know is that Moscow is expensive and that girls love bouncing between venues which increases the cost.

Like I said before, you need to learn who to approach at a nightclub. Don’t approach girls that you recognize from last week in the same club. Instead, try to find girls that drink and look bored. Those are your best shots.

Overall, Nightlife in Russia is a lot of fun. It definitely reminds me of Belgrade Nightlife. Russian girls really know how to party and drink a lot. They are more sensual and seductive at night than most European girls; they know how to let loose.

If you don’t know the language, you should go to places with loud music. Some of the best places to go in Moscow are:

  • Gazgolder – interesting local with great music and an upscale crowd. Definitely one of the best dance clubs in the city.
  • Troyka Multispace – Check this out if you like hipster girls.
  • Rodnya – great rooftop view, have great techno parties, famous DJs come here often, and prices are reasonable.
  • Icon – expensive but crazy. It has a capacity of over 2000 people, and a lot of parties are with thematic events. Famous people also go out here so it tells you a lot of what you can expect but overall I never had a bad time in this club. It’s expensive but well worth it.

“Come drink with me”

If you walk down the street around 1-2AM and a hot girl starts talking with you, don’t get too excited. Listen to what she has to say and chat for a bit but if she proposes for you two to go “for a drink” and that she knows the place, be cautious.

Most of the time she has a deal with the bar owner she will take you to. She is basically getting a cut to everything you order and pay for.

If you doubt her true intention, propose her another club or bar or ask for her number so you can call her later. If she protests, just carry on. And don’t get mad, she is just doing her job.

Day game in Russia

Russian girls on the streets of Moscow

There is a real challenge when it comes to a day game in Moscow. And that challenge is to not get lazy over it. There will be a ton of good looking girls walking by you so you will feel like you’re in paradise. Not only that, but every time you say to yourself “let me approach this one” there will be that little voice in your head that says: “relax, you don’t need to go to her, there is an unlimited number of girls just like her, there is no need to hurry.”

Girls that don’t like you will tell you very fast without being rude. But what about those who do like you? They will find hard time showing it. Most foreigners think that Russian women are cold or icey with a reason, and that reason is not that she’s not interested but that she expects something from you. Let’s find out what that is.

The Big Secret (On How To Get Russian Women)

Well, first of all, they will expect you to lead, to be a man. Give Russian woman a chance to lead, and she will get cold and disappointed very quickly. Understand that most Russian men are very aggressive in their game so you will need to have at least some of that, I suggest you find some local guys and try to approach women with them to see what I’m talking about.

Remember that you want to look like you are in control no matter your archetype. I don’t know what kind of girls or situations you will go after but any Russian girl from wallflower virgin student to after party coked-up crazy girl appreciates dominance and ability to lead.

So, how to show her that you are a real man? What’s the big secret? The big secret is being physical. The number one sticking point for every foreigner that comes here to approach women is not being physical enough. Russian people use their body for everyday communication, that’s just the way they are. So, you need to be physical and start touching her very early after your approach.

The best way from my experience is to start touching her shoulder or arm while speaking just to keep the attention, then proceed with the hug and then finally start holding her hand. This should all be happening in the first 10 minutes of interaction. When you want to change location or to get her on the instant date, it’s best to gently pull her towards you while you start moving in the direction you want to go. She will giggle and everything, but she will come. When you get comfortable with this, your results will jump through the roof. If she gets serious or at least defensive, obviously you should stop. Pay attention to her reaction, which will tell you if you can move things slowly to the next level.

I had troubles getting numbers and dates with girls in Moscow, but after one of the local guys (thank you Dimitry) showed me that being physical to a girl is not only normal but something you must do if you want success, I felt like I was sleeping the whole time until then.

Start small, like a hug and after you feel comfortable enough, move to the next level. Remember, when it comes to the game, in Russia, it’s all about being physical.

Russian men

Vladimir Putin through the spyglasses

Russian men love to party and drink. They are very open and friendly if you show any interest to get to know them. Overall, there are more natural alphas than in the US, and most of Russians are used to being in difficult situations. Most of them have at least some experience at scenarios where things escalate quickly, so approaching women isn’t that much of a big deal or scary for them as it is for western men.

Have in mind that you will get a lot of “oh, you are an American/European, let me buy you a drink.” And before you know it, you are wasted and your whole night went to drinking, speaking and singing with your new friend. This is very common and most guys that get to know you will want to get drunk with you.

Also, try to be polite as possible when you reject this offer, try to make something up since in Russian culture it’s a bit offensive to refuse a drink when someone is offering it to you.


I never experienced any problems here. However, in this part of the world, you need to be aware of your surroundings. Don’t be disrespectful and you will be fine.

Don’t worry that you are an American since I got nothing but positive reactions. They were very curious to know how people live in the states. The younger people were more excited about it than the older ones.

I should say however that one club I didn’t feel comfortable at all is crazy daisies. A lot of shady stuff going on there, so I recommend that you avoid it.

Online game

I didn’t have much success with tinder. Girls on tinder tend to be very flaky in Russia. So I kinda gave up on the online game until I found out about Badoo and Russian Cupid. Both were good, but I had a little bit more success with Badoo. Girls were very open, and a lot of them know English. But if you want more information on Russian Cupid, read my Russian Cupid review.

If a girl doesn’t know English very well and she matched you, that means that she really likes you. And if you know the language, I suggest you try Mamba since it’s a very good app for high-quality women. Something like Russian tinder.

Remember that it takes time, so install those apps 1 or 2 weeks before you get to Russia because that’s how much it takes to get some dates.


Russia is one big adventure. You will see things here that you never imagined, this is like a completely different world. People are friendly, and women are beautiful and respectful. It’s really hard to describe the atmosphere here, it’s best to experience it.

When I first decided to come here I was scared. I didn’t know what’s waiting for me, but what I discovered in Russia is something amazing and that’s why I will stay here for at least two more months. Russian women are truly special and their honesty is what I love the best.

This is not a country where you come just to bang as many women as you can, but you will certainly have a good time here.


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  1. Please save us your lame misplaced ill-informed snarky political remarks and stay on topic.

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